Hi! This post will be about a little bit love and the structure of it. It can seem weird to put love in the structures. But I will try to determine the borders as ok as I can.
Different than Metin I am usually write in English. Actually I don’t have so much post here and I knew that not more than 2-3 people read my blog but anyway I am feeling quite satisfied after I saw my new blog post on the home page. Metin likes to write in Turkish, cuz his populist and widely generatable way of writing quitely acceptable by the community. And If we took like mostly girls read the blogs of boys. Actually If he is not my close friend; I probably not read his blog. And If he read this blog post, I am not inviting him to the challenge because I am pretty sure that his capability on English is not enough to cope with me.
Sorry Metin
Ok. After enough smash session of Metin. I can continue to my subject. I would like to write about love. Improving part and ending part of it.
On love, I am highly consider the role of “destiny”. The place, time, atmosphere where and when you will meet with the person you love is a “coincidence.” You can’t say to me like I will go to Paris tomorrow and I will love the first girl I saw after I made my first pee there. Right ?
It can turned to be fast love, at the first sight or you get close day by day and you love each other. But I don’t believe love at first sight. It’s just the waterfall of the hormons. And you go on, everything is well after some problems etc., different viewpoint to the situations, and unstopable decreasing of the “fire” make the things just stay for the memories and good moments. You start to think like, “we were amazing with her/him” and just for this you keep go on almost the time you were perfect, spend the same amount in reverse mood.
And the pain of love. It’s just about the kepting. It’s not about the person you love. Or losing him/her or something. It’s just we start to think “who will enter to her/him life after me ?” this emotion makes you to feel “love pain” It’s beatiful to say “I still want and want to be with you” It’s about just keeping her/him. for sure It’s about who give up who… your side makes concrete your feelings. ıt’s coming to that question ? Who left who?; the person who is gone or stay ? or who choose this sides. Who is gone and who is staying?
And best way to think about: It’s better to stay unhappy alone than being with him/her unhappy.
And why love is decreasing? Wrong people we choose?, It must?, Destiny?, Mistakes?, Strawberries are red that’s why?
Vacation is started. Enjoy the song!
Incubus – Love Hurts